Couples

Cycles, Communication, Repair & Intimacy

When therapy is done with couples, it can help the clients grow individually within the relationship. Sometimes, this means members of the couple must reckon with behaviors that are inhibiting that growth. There may be self-protection strategies that each individual uses to defend themselves that cycle back and forth. Couples can get stuck in a dynamic.

I work with partners to learn communication and conflict resolution skills, discover how best to work as a team, and identify relationship patterns that need updating. We work to understand each partner’s attachment strategy and explore how their history and this relationship impact their nervous system. We explore how conflict impacts eachother and what each person needs for safety. It’s a collaborative process to find safe ways to reach for each other, have heart-to-heart sharing, and create a secure space to bring vulnerability forward. I help couples identify what they do when they are worried about being left, feeling alone, or disliked by the other, and increase feeling seen and heard for both members.

In the end, couples experience more intimacy and understanding about their partner and themselves.

I Work With Couples Who Are:

  • Navigating A Big Life Change

  • Unable To Resolve Conflicts Easily

  • Pre-Marital

  • Feeling Disconnected

  • Experiencing Grief/Loss

  • Pregnant

  • Postpartum

  • Struggling With Fertility Issues

  • Feeling Ambiguous About Parenthood

  • Need Assistance Co-Parenting and Developing a Co-Parenting Plan

  • Struggling With Intimacy

  • Wanting to Explore Sexual Issues

  • Consensual Non-Monogamy

  • Navigating A In-Law Issues

  • Experiencing Communication Problems

  • Struggling With Trust

  • Empty Nest

  • Struggling With External Family Dynamics

  • Feeling Stuck & Overwhelmed

  • Struggling With The Demands of Parenthood

How I Work?

I am passionate about helping couples grow and connect. I meet you where you and your partner are, as we uncover what’s making you stuck.

I have advanced training in EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), and I incorporate somatic interventions to help couples learn how to calm down. We work to build more awareness of where they are, where they have been, where their partner is, how they are impacting each other, and learn different paths towards how they want to be with each other (and themselves). I work with each member of the couple to create opportunities to become more authentic in ways that help them trust themselves and each other. The therapy is tailored to the goals we set together in the initial sessions and integrates the following:

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • Psychodynamic

  • Attachment Theory

  • Imago Communication Techniques

  • Trauma Resiliency Method

  • Mindfulness & Somatic Interventions

  • Sex Therapy

  • Parts Work (Internal Family Systems - IFS)

  • Feminist Therapy

  • Family Systems Therapy

  • Motivational Interviewing

  • CBT